You have no control on what the other side does with an RCD.  That's
why it's called a Receiver Configurable Distress.  If you want to send
the 'taking' RCD, your client will send the 'taking' token to the
appropriate receivers, and those receivers display that token
depending on how each individual receiver has configured displaying
that token.

If either the server or the receiver's client does not support RCDs,
or has RCDs turned off, they degenerate into macros and the receiver
will see the text you sent.

--Carlos V.